How do I navigate the dating pool?

Hello, I'm a 23-year-old slim, 6'2" Black guy with a baby face. I naturally have somewhat feminine features, even though I'm not feminine myself, and I can't grow any facial hair. Many people often ask if I'm just a tall, masculine woman because of how soft my features are.

I struggle with dating because many gay men assume I'm too feminine and don't want to engage with me. I understand that we are looking for men and manliness, but my face is perceived as too "pretty."

The individuals I tend to attract the most are bisexual men, but almost every bisexual guy I've talked to doesn’t want to commit to a man since they prefer being with women long-term. This is completely understandable, but it can be disheartening.

I receive numerous compliments from women who tell me I'm handsome, and I often wish I were straight or had a different appeal.

I'm mainly looking to meet someone special, date, and possibly build a life together, but I often feel undesirable.

I'm frustrated, especially because for the past few months, I've been seeing a guy, and we had perfect chemistry, the same hobbies and interests, and plenty of dates, but just now, he told me he won't commit to me because he wants to be with a woman and doesn't want to lead me on. I appreciate his honesty but I feel so discouraged.