What am I doing wrong?

It feels like I keep hitting a wall. I’ve viewed several two-bedroom houses in Lower Hutt, found one I liked, applied, and felt like I had a strong chance—only to be told a few days later that I was unsuccessful and the place had been rented. Same cycle repeat.

What am I doing wrong?

I’m a single man with a stable job and can comfortably afford rent and expenses. Right now, I’m flatting, but I used to own my own home before losing it due to a separation. At the time, living with others was crucial for my mental well-being, and it truly helped me get through a tough period. Now that I’ve healed and have a positive outlook on life, I’m ready to find a place to call home and be myself again.

I’ve been upfront about my situation with agents and landlords, but am I being denied because I currently live in a flat? Am I being too honest and hurting my chances?

Would appreciate any advice or insights—what could I do differently to improve my chances?