Confession and thoughts what you’d do if you were the Husband.
So I (26m) was seeing a girl that I had met on Tinder. We met at a bar and hit it off immediately. We started spending pretty much everyday together and then she dropped a bombshell that she was going thru a divorce. She assured me the guy hasn’t really reached out much in that time and that she really likes me. My dumbass let that slide as I should’ve known that never works. We go onto to spend the month together but the last week or so the husband starts calling, showing up at her house, and threatening that “he will beat the shit out of me and doesn’t care if he goes to jail” (what a p***y). We are at my house 3 days before Christmas and she comes over to tell me that she loves me and wants only me but her ex is struggling and wants her back and that she doesn’t believe divorce is Gods will and that she wants to give him another chance because it’s right by God. I can totally understand that part as I am a Christian myself, but sleeping with somebody while still technically married is adultery which isn’t right by God either in that sense. Long story short I get a long text from her in the morning about how much she loves me and wants me and only me and all this other nonsense crazy women like to spue (not all women!) so I asked are you choosing the abusive ex you told me all about or me? And she answered him so out of anger from his threats towards me, I facebook messaged him her text message along with a photo she took of her riding me. A little extreme indeed but what’s done is done. How would you handle seeing that if you were the husband?